{"id":735,"date":"2024-08-03T16:31:04","date_gmt":"2024-08-03T16:31:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/green-horses\/"},"modified":"2026-01-20T20:11:06","modified_gmt":"2026-01-20T20:11:06","slug":"zeleni-kone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/zeleni-kone\/","title":{"rendered":"Zelen\u00ed kon\u011b"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>M\u00e1m zelen\u00e9ho kon\u011b. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee fantaz\u00edruji nebo mysl\u00edm na nesmysly. Alespo\u0148 ve sv\u011bt\u011b ko\u0148\u00e1k\u016f to tak nen\u00ed. \"Zelen\u00fd k\u016f\u0148\" je term\u00edn, kter\u00fd pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed kovbojov\u00e9, kdy\u017e mluv\u00ed o koni, kter\u00fd teprve za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 nosit sedlo a jezdce. Pro tento proces maj\u00ed i vlastn\u00ed v\u00fdraz: *Starting a Colt* (Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed h\u0159\u00edb\u011bte). Jak kr\u00e1sn\u00fd v\u00fdraz! K\u016f\u0148 se t\u00edmto procesem nezlom\u00ed, ale za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 cesta, kter\u00e1 kon\u010d\u00ed jezdeck\u00fdm kon\u011bm. Skute\u010dnost, \u017ee dnes nem\u00e1me pro tohle v \u0159e\u010dtin\u011b specifick\u00fd v\u00fdraz, o n\u011b\u010dem vypov\u00edd\u00e1, ale o tom se pobav\u00edme jindy. M\u00e1m tedy zelenou kobylku. Vagia m\u00e1 \u010dty\u0159i roky. Postupn\u011b by se m\u011bla nau\u010dit dovednosti jezdeck\u00e9ho kon\u011b, z\u00edskat fyzickou i du\u0161evn\u00ed s\u00edlu. Ale je \u010das, ne\u017e za\u010dne intenzivn\u00ed pr\u00e1ce pod sedlem. Kostra kon\u011b pot\u0159ebuje p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b p\u011bt a\u017e \u0161est let, aby se pln\u011b vyvinula. Posledn\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st, kter\u00e1 se osifikuje, je p\u00e1te\u0159, tak\u017ee za\u010d\u00edt s intenzivn\u00edm je\u017ed\u011bn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 brzy je zlo\u010din. D\u016fsledky jsou mnoh\u00e9. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm v\u0161ak vznikaj\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e9 deformace a poran\u011bn\u00ed, co\u017e \u010dasto kon\u010d\u00ed spondyl\u00f3zou, tzv. *kissing spine*. Patologie p\u00e1te\u0159e, kter\u00e9 vznikaj\u00ed v d\u016fsledku nespr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho zach\u00e1zen\u00ed v mlad\u00e9m v\u011bku nebo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9 z\u00e1t\u011b\u017ee, nejsou l\u00e9\u010diteln\u00e9. Jsou trval\u00e9, \u010dasto se zhor\u0161uj\u00ed a jsou spojeny s nesnesitelnou bolest\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zat\u00edm byla Vagia na proch\u00e1zce mimo farmu dvakr\u00e1t, v\u017edy s jin\u00fdm kon\u011bm. Te\u010f, poprv\u00e9, jde sama. Rozhodn\u00fdm krokem vyrazila z farmy. Dob\u0159e, Vagio! Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me sestupovat po cest\u00e1ch mezi olivov\u00fdmi h\u00e1ji. Prvn\u00ed k\u0159i\u017eovatka p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed prvn\u00ed v\u00e1h\u00e1n\u00ed: \u201eNev\u00edm, jestli m\u00e1m pokra\u010dovat,\" p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed potichu. D\u00fdch\u00e1m a pos\u00edl\u00e1m s\u00edlu sv\u00e9ho n\u00e1dechu ke koni. Spou\u0161t\u00edm ruce dol\u016f, zauj\u00edm\u00e1m tzv. nulovou pozici (naprost\u00fd klid) a s dechem nab\u00edz\u00edm ot\u011b\u017ee. Skv\u011bl\u00e9! Pokra\u010dujeme d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed alignleft is-type-video is-provider-vimeo wp-block-embed-vimeo vidmarg wp-embed-aspect-9-16 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"vagia\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/994738752?h=5356da70c0&amp;dnt=1&amp;app_id=122963\" width=\"563\" height=\"1000\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen; picture-in-picture; clipboard-write\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>U&nbsp;kraje cesty stoj\u00ed n\u00e1kla\u010f\u00e1k a uvnit\u0159 sed\u00ed mu\u017e, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s sleduje. \u201eD\u00e1l nejdu,\" rozhoduje se Vagia a zastavuje. \u201eDobr\u00fd den,\" \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m mu\u017ei. A Vagia se rozhodne pokra\u010dovat. Spr\u00e1vn\u011b usoudila, \u017ee nejde o \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 nebezpe\u010d\u00ed. N\u00e1hle proj\u00ed\u017ed\u00ed pracovn\u00edk sklen\u00edku na kole: \u201eTo je konec! D\u00e1l nejdu,\" \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 sv\u00fdm t\u011blem a op\u011bt zastavujeme. Stejn\u00fd proces za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 znovu: siln\u011b vydechnu sm\u011brem ke koni, sna\u017e\u00edm se p\u0159en\u00e9st sv\u016fj klid, nab\u00eddnu pohodl\u00ed s ot\u011b\u017eemi... Nic. P\u0159id\u00e1m nohu, aby pomohla. Tla\u010d\u00edm, rozd\u011bluji tlak pod\u00e9l cel\u00e9 d\u00e9lky nohy. Odshora dol\u016f a\u017e po lehk\u00fd dotyk paty. C\u00edt\u00edm mal\u00fd pohyb dop\u0159edu. Pochvala pro Vagiu, ale znovu se zastav\u00ed. \u201eJdeme,\" \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m klidn\u011b, ale rozhodn\u011b. N\u00e1sleduje v\u00e1hav\u00fd krok. Chv\u00e1l\u00edm Vagiu pohlazen\u00edm na krku a mezi u\u0161ima a pokra\u010dujeme d\u00e1l. M\u00edj\u00edme holubn\u00edk, kter\u00fd se t\u0159ese ve v\u011btru. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 reakce. Kus roztr\u017een\u00e9ho plastu ze sklen\u00edku se t\u0159epet\u00e1 ve vzduchu. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 reakce. Vagia jen sleduje plastov\u00fd prou\u017eek sv\u00fdm pohledem. Hr\u00e1li jsme si s plastov\u00fdmi ta\u0161kami cel\u00e9 dny a te\u010f u\u017e se neboj\u00ed. N\u011bkdo startuje n\u00e1kla\u010f\u00e1k. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 reakce. Vagia je zvykl\u00e1 na podobn\u00e9 zvuky od ml\u00e9\u010dn\u00e9ho gener\u00e1toru na farm\u011b, kde \u017eije.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00e1l je roh h\u0159bitova s popelnic\u00ed, jej\u00ed\u017e v\u00edko se ve v\u011btru m\u00edrn\u011b zved\u00e1. Vagia se v\u016fbec nezaj\u00edm\u00e1. Moje sebev\u011bdom\u00ed je v oblac\u00edch! C\u00edt\u00edm, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eu j\u00edt kamkoli, i kdy\u017e pod sebou m\u00e1m st\u00e1le pom\u011brn\u011b slabou kobylku, kter\u00e1 hled\u00e1 rovnov\u00e1hu, sna\u017e\u00ed se naj\u00edt, jak m\u011b n\u00e9st na sv\u00fdch z\u00e1dech, a n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t se klikat\u00ed. Pro\u0161li jsme kolem h\u0159bitovn\u00ed zdi k rozcest\u00ed vedouc\u00ed na n\u00e1m\u011bst\u00ed vesnice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dojdu tam! Riskantn\u00ed rozhodnut\u00ed. Ale Vagia dosud projevila velkou odvahu. Na cest\u011b jsme te\u010f u\u017e p\u016fl hodiny. Na silnici mohou b\u00fdt auta a motorky s \u0159idi\u010di, kte\u0159\u00ed nev\u011bd\u00ed, jak reagovat, kdy\u017e potkaj\u00ed kon\u011b s jezdcem. Ale te\u010f m\u011b poh\u00e1n\u00ed jen euforie a sobeck\u00e9 ambice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na n\u00e1m\u011bst\u00ed si hraj\u00ed d\u011bti fotbal. M\u00ed\u010d l\u00e9t\u00e1 sem a tam, k\u0159i\u010d\u00ed na sebe, sm\u011bj\u00ed se. Ale j\u00e1 to nevid\u00edm, nic nesly\u0161\u00edm. Chci tam prost\u011b j\u00edt. Chci si u\u017e\u00edt pocit, \u017ee jsem dokonal\u00e1 v sedle, v tr\u00e9ninku, ve vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed kon\u011b. Ten k\u016f\u0148 m\u011b te\u010f v\u016fbec nezaj\u00edm\u00e1. Vagia doraz\u00ed do st\u0159edu k\u0159i\u017eovatky, rozhl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed se a hodnot\u00ed situaci jako nep\u0159ekonatelnou p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eku. Odsud m\u00e1m pod sebou kon\u011b, kter\u00fd je z\u00e1rove\u0148 betonov\u00fd i vod\u00edkov\u00e1 bomba v jednom balen\u00ed. M\u016f\u017eete \u201ehodit kostkou\u201c, kter\u00e1 strana se pust\u00ed do akce. Nab\u00edz\u00edm tedy ot\u011b\u017ee, sna\u017e\u00edm se uvolnit (kam te\u010f po\u0161lu trochu klidn\u00e9 energie???), zatla\u010d\u00edm nohama, \u201eJdeme!\" \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m a... nic. Ko\u0148sk\u00e1 noha \u201ezapou\u0161t\u00ed ko\u0159eny\u201c hluboko do asfaltu. Nevad\u00ed, m\u00e1me dal\u0161\u00ed triky pro takov\u00e9 situace: po\u0161lu ji do mal\u00e9ho kruhu. I sebemen\u0161\u00ed pohyb je lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e nic. D\u011bl\u00e1me kruh, prvn\u00ed, druh\u00fd a ot\u00e1\u010d\u00edm Vagiu sm\u011brem k n\u00e1m\u011bst\u00ed. A k\u016f\u0148 z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 nehybn\u00fd. Nesna\u017e\u00ed se ut\u00e9ct, nepanika\u0159\u00ed, prost\u011b nem\u016f\u017ee pokra\u010dovat. Boj\u00ed se, m\u00e1 obavy, nev\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee to dok\u00e1\u017ee. Sna\u017e\u00ed se mi to \u0159\u00edct po sv\u00e9m zp\u016fsobu, ale j\u00e1 jsem zahled\u011bn\u00e1 do sv\u00e9ho c\u00edle. M\u00edsto toho se ji sna\u017e\u00edm p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit couv\u00e1n\u00edm. Bez v\u00fdsledku. Vyjas\u0148uji, \u017ee chci j\u00edt vp\u0159ed: ot\u011b\u017ee, noha, d\u016frazn\u00e1 hole\u0148, klepnu ji bi\u010d\u00edkem za sedlem. \u201e\u0158\u00edk\u00e1m ti, \u017ee nikam nejdu,\" trv\u00e1 na sv\u00e9m Vagia. J\u00e1 jsem hluch\u00e1. Ve sv\u00e9 aroganci d\u011bl\u00e1m dal\u0161\u00ed chyby. Nem\u016f\u017ee to proj\u00edt! P\u016fjde na n\u00e1m\u011bst\u00ed, zabej\u010d\u00edm se. Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m pou\u017e\u00edvat r\u016fzn\u00e9 triky, jeden po druh\u00e9m, ani\u017e bych \u010dekala na jakoukoliv reakci. Jasn\u00e9 poselstv\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed a zoufalstv\u00ed z m\u00e9 strany. Vagia to ch\u00e1pe a ot\u00e1\u010d\u00ed hlavu sm\u011brem k cest\u011b zp\u011bt, aby mi uk\u00e1zala, co chce. Kdo by se te\u010f c\u00edtil bezpe\u010dn\u011b s v\u016fdcem, jako jsem j\u00e1? Kdo by ho n\u00e1sledoval? Ale Vagia je \u0161t\u011bdr\u00e1. Stoj\u00ed a \u010dek\u00e1. Jedin\u00e9, co je ochotn\u00e1 p\u0159ijmout, je \u201eoto\u010dka\u201c a zp\u00e1tky do bezpe\u010d\u00ed farmy. Nakonec to vzd\u00e1v\u00e1m. Nepou\u017eiju n\u00e1sil\u00ed. To, co d\u011bl\u00e1m, je u\u017e na hranici. Uklidni se, p\u0159ikazuji si. P\u0159i t\u0159et\u00edm n\u00e1dechu Vagia lehce \u017ev\u00fdk\u00e1. Ch\u00e1pe, \u017ee moje \u201evystoupen\u00ed\u201c skon\u010dilo. Nab\u00edz\u00edm ji ot\u011b\u017ee a hned ud\u011bl\u00e1 krok vp\u0159ed. Zastav\u00edm a pochv\u00e1l\u00edm ji. Opravdu nem\u00e1m pr\u00e1vo te\u010f \u017e\u00e1dat v\u00edc. Moje zelen\u00e1 kobylka m\u00e1 v\u00edc rozumu ne\u017e j\u00e1. Ot\u00e1\u010d\u00edme se a m\u00ed\u0159\u00edme dom\u016f. Ale nejdeme p\u0159\u00edmo. Zrychl\u00edme, zpomal\u00edme. Zastav\u00edme. Slalomujeme mezi stromy. P\u0159ekra\u010dujeme mal\u00fd potok, kter\u00fd Vagiovi od mali\u010dka nevzbuzoval velkou d\u016fv\u011bru, a doraz\u00edme dom\u016f. Chv\u00e1l\u00edm Vagiu, sund\u00e1m sedlo, ot\u011b\u017ee, smyji pot z jej\u00edho h\u0159betu a vyt\u00e1hnu velkou mrkev.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nakonec jsem zachr\u00e1nila, co se dalo. Na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed jsme m\u011bli dlouh\u00e9 a intenzivn\u00ed obdob\u00ed pr\u00e1ce ze zem\u011b, budovali jsme vz\u00e1jemn\u00fd respekt a d\u016fv\u011bru. Ale jsem na sebe na\u0161tvan\u00e1, \u017ee jsem ji zklamala v kritick\u00e9m okam\u017eiku... Jak\u00e9 z\u00e1v\u011bry m\u016f\u017eeme vyvodit?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list checkmini\">\n<li>Kon\u011b se u\u010d\u00ed prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm pozitivn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed. Je mo\u017en\u00e9 p\u0159emoci kon\u011b n\u00e1sil\u00edm, zlomit ho, ale p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b stejn\u00fd po\u017eadavek, stejn\u00e1 situace mu zp\u016fsob\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed stres. Strach nen\u00ed u\u010ditel, ani pro zv\u00ed\u0159ata, ani pro d\u011bti. Hrozba testu, zn\u00e1mky, bit\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159in\u00e9st jen kr\u00e1tkodob\u00e9 v\u00fdsledky.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nem\u011bli bychom b\u00fdt s ko\u0148mi p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 ambici\u00f3zn\u00ed. Sna\u017e\u00edme se vn\u00edmat jejich limity a ukon\u010dit tr\u00e9nink o krok p\u0159ed hranic\u00ed. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u016f\u0148 by m\u011bl j\u00edt dom\u016f s pozitivn\u00ed n\u00e1ladou, c\u00edtit se \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011b, \u017ee sv\u00e9 lekce zvl\u00e1dl, \u017ee to dok\u00e1zal, \u017ee byl dobr\u00fd.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pokud n\u00e1m k\u016f\u0148 ned\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje, nezlep\u0161uje sv\u016fj v\u00fdkon, neu\u010d\u00ed se nov\u00e9 v\u011bci. D\u016fv\u011bru kon\u011b m\u016f\u017eeme z\u00edskat pouze konzistenc\u00ed, pochvalou (nem\u00e1m na mysli pamlsky), motivac\u00ed, podporou a jasn\u00fdmi hranicemi, ale to v\u0161echno vy\u017eaduje \u010das. K\u016f\u0148 nen\u00ed c\u00edl, je to cesta.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u016f\u0148 vn\u00edm\u00e1 na\u0161i nejistotu, paniku, zoufalstv\u00ed, ale i pohodu a vnit\u0159n\u00ed klid a podle toho se chov\u00e1. N\u00e1sleduje v\u016fdce, kter\u00fd vyza\u0159uje klid a bezpe\u010d\u00ed. K\u016f\u0148 si cen\u00ed up\u0159\u00edmnosti a p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9 komunikace. Nen\u00ed z\u00e1ke\u0159n\u00fd, mazan\u00fd, pomstychtiv\u00fd a nerozum\u00ed takov\u00e9mu chov\u00e1n\u00ed od n\u00e1s.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Na\u0161e pochvala nebo nesouhlas by m\u011bly p\u0159ij\u00edt ihned po \u010dinu. Nem\u016f\u017eeme trestat kon\u011b po dlouhou dobu nebo o den pozd\u011bji. Po n\u011bkolika sekund\u00e1ch u\u017e nech\u00e1pe vztahy mezi sv\u00fdmi a na\u0161imi \u010diny.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nechceme stroj, nechceme zotro\u010den\u00e9 zv\u00ed\u0159e. Chceme partnera, spole\u010dn\u00edka, p\u0159\u00edtele na cest\u011b, kterou podnik\u00e1me spole\u010dn\u011b.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Kdy\u017e n\u00e1m k\u016f\u0148 d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje, nem\u016f\u017eete si p\u0159edstavit, co je ochotn\u00fd a schopn\u00fd pro n\u00e1s ud\u011blat.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00e1m zelen\u00e9ho kon\u011b. Ne doslova zelen\u00e9ho, ale nov\u00e9ho v tr\u00e9ninku. Je to v\u0161echno o budov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bry, krok za krokem, na t\u00e9to spole\u010dn\u00e9 cest\u011b.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":817,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-category-01-cs"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/735","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=735"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/735\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2204,"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/735\/revisions\/2204"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chrrhc.org\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}